Ohana Ku

Tajuk bunyi macam unik je kan? Hehe..

 “Ohana means family”

Satu dialog dalam cerita kartun Lilo&Stitch yang 

selalu terngiang-ngiang kat cuping telinga saya ni.

Rupanya Ohana bermaksud family atau keluarga dalam bahasa orang Hawaii.

Tahukah anda bahawa orang Hawaii ada 

banyak persamaan dengan bangsa melayu?

Pernah korang dengar orang puteh or mat salleh melatah tak? Tak kan? Melatah dalam bahasa inggeris pon mcm tak pernah dengar pun.  Tapi Cuma bangsa kita dan orang Hawaii je yang melatah ni. Dan ada research shows that kite dengan orang Hawaiian ni sebenarnya related. Ada bau-bau baceng eh bacang gituee. Sebab kalau kite tengok muka Hawaiian ada macam kemelayuan sikit kan? Haa.. dan2 la sebab aku minat The Rock la cakap cmtu ;p Wahh.. interesting kan? Ni pon my lecturer yang bagitahu. Betul ke tidak taktaulah. hehe

Eh, apa yang aku melalut ni? Haiya suka sangat hanyut ntah kemana je cerita. Ok ok berbalik kepada tajuk asal pasal family. Bila bercakap je pasal family ofcoz la it instantly became a personal affair. Sebab keluarga ni very personal. Peribadi. Sesuatu yang sulit dan rapat dengan kita.

Sebab tu kadang-kadang ada orang tu bila dah betul-betul rapat with a person baru dia ready nak introduce that person to his or her whole family. Tapi ada je yang jenis family open dan sempoi boleh je nak huha huha kan. For me, family is an important part of my life. I treasure the value of family. Walau kadang-kadang tak nampak sangat but truly i care about them.

Being a blogger ni means u share your personal experiences with your readers but at some point i would like to keep something for myself. Banyak benda sebenarnya yang saya tak expose so that i could at least protect my family from their privacy life being violated.

:: Raya 2010 with family and relatives ::

Kadang-kadang bila orang dah tau pasal kita, dah stalk habis-habis pasal diri kita diorang nak jadi inspector pulak nak siasat background family la macam-macam lah. These people sometimes don’t know when to stop. Stalk sana sini habis semua ahli keluarga kita dia nak follow their updates. Kalau tak mendatangkan masalah takpe. Ni lain pulak jadinya. Pantang slack je kena hentam. Macam diorang tu malaikat.

 Makes me wonder, sempurna sangat ke hidup mereka ni ek?

Bila kita tak expose in details, diorang make extremely stupid and false accusations. Confident je buat statement and assume itu ini about my family. Konon dah tau and kenal sangat kami. Haktuiii la. Sebut nama pon tak betul lagi nak mengaku rapat dengan family kami. Urghh.. sorry we don’t be friend with those kind of busybody-put-their-nose-on-other-ppl’s-business-punya-orang.

Seronok ek buat cerita dan fitnah-fitnah orang ni? Self satisfaction ek? Nampak sangat the symptoms of ppl with lack of self-belonging. Kesian kesian..

One of the most stupidest (haaa..dah most tu stupidest lagi..lantaklah grammar kelaut pun sbab ni memang dah kes abnormal pon)thing among the rumors i heard was my mum hidup bermadu. Hahaha.. hahh. Kah kahkah proott..Memang tergelak guling guling sampai terkentut la aku dengar cite ni.

Let me make it clear okay? My mother TAK PERNAH. never Ever EVER (mcm lagu taylor swift tu) dimadukan macam yang korang heboh-heboh kan tu. She is single dan tak pernah dimadukan oleh suaminya. Titik!

:: from my instagram ::

 My parents divorced sooo long time ago. About 12 years ago when i was around 11 years old. Sebab penceraian? simply kerana tiada jodoh. Diorang cerai pon secara damai. Tak payahlah korang nak pung pang pung pang jadikan isu pasal diorang bercerai sebab dah memang tertulis di luh Mahfuz dah jodoh mereka sampai situ je. Both of them were cool about it. So why weren’t you? Korang pun belum tahu lagi korang punya takdir, jodoh, pertemuan, ajal dan maut semua macam mana kan?

:: Raya 2012 ::

My dad married my step mum  4 years ago. I am blessed with two adorable baby sisters, Hana and Marissa from their marriage. I call her Mama. She’s a cool step mum and we don’t have any problem living together under the same roof. Memang saya jarang post gambar my Mama ni sebab i still want to protect her privacy and everyday personal life. I don’t want her to get affected from anything that may come from my blog.

:: Sis wedding ::

My biological mum, Mak is a single mother for 12years. She’s an indeed the strongest and independent women i have even known in my entire life. Raising us up especially me who have been staying with her since zaman sekolah lagi sampailah dah besar panjang ni. Even bila my dad remarried baru kitorang start moving in with my dad, saya dan mak still close as usual.

:: first present i gave Mak that i bought with my own money::

 She can be considered as my best friend who knows all my secrets, comforts me every time im down with something. She’s definitely my backbone-my strength. Some people even said that i inherit her strong heart and perseverance. Alhamdulillah i believe she is also the reason how im still standing strong until today.

:: On my diploma graduation day 2012 ::

I paling pantang kalau sesiapa sentuh, cuit or hurt my mum verbally or physically(sofar xpnh lg). Saya seorang yang sangat penyabar dan bukan pemarah. Baran jauh sekali. Tapi kalau who ever tinggi suara or kurang ajar with my mum memang it gets on my nerves la sebab saya sendiri tak pernah tinggi suara dengan dia let alone kurang ajar. That’s why pernah sampai tahap i lost my patience and exploded bila ada this mamat kurang ajar nak tinggi suara tengking ngan my mum. Kalau dulu nak tengking2 hentak2 saya, i still can take but if it’s my mum u’re talking about, no way hozeyy.. Tak kesah la dia nak mengaku ke nak nafikan yang penting, saya,Mak dan Allah tahu the truth.

Even mak selalu nasihatkan “sabar je. Allah sentiasa bersama orang-orang yang sabar. Insyallah akan ada hikmah dan balasan dikemudian hari. Ya kena yakin dengan Qada’ dan Qada. Doa je banyak-banyak, doa orang teraniaya diangkat darjatnya.”

Nasiblah mak saya seorang yang penyabar. Banyak sangat dugaan yang kami terpaksa tempuh bersama. Just like what happened to HanisZalikha and her mother dimana orang kutuk mak dia tak pandai jaga anak la itu lah ini lah. Heyy.. who are you to point out people’s way of nurturing and parenting?

 Aduii.. sabar Elia. Istighfar banyak-banyak. Astaghfirullahalazim...

Bukan nak meluahkan kemarahan cuma im trying to set things straight. Lepas ni kalau ada lagi dengar bunyi-bunyi sumbang tu taktau lah apa lagi aku nak buat. Cuma mampu berdoa diorang ni bertaubatlah sebelum terlambat. 

Ingatllah, dosa dengan Allah kita boleh minta ampun dengan Dia, dosa sesama manusia hanya orang itu yang mampu memaafkannya. Semoga kita semua diberkati dan dirahmati. 

Salam sejahtera dan selamat beramal ~!